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Had a meltdown this weekend big time. Told him to get off h

Had a meltdown this weekend big time. Told him to get off his a$$, stop watching TV and his iPad and help me with the sick dog, the house, the chores...everything. He leaves tomorrow for 8 days for business. I pray for peace while he is gone. PS He did get off his a$$ and started helping a little bit. But why must I be his "mother"....he should have awareness that I'm overwhelmed with everything and need support. Have a vet appointment this morning and I suggested we both take her, not just me. He agreed. Maybe he is getting it??? Or just patronizing me and looking forward to leaving for 8 days so he doesn't have to deal with it. Either way.....thanks for allowing me to vent...LOL Hope everyone will have some peace in their day today!

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Apr 23

@jessiesnake How's your dog doing?

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Apr 23

@triplen Well of course church is stupid because in his mind, he IS GOD. Mine says his faith is his alone and is private. But, considering he is quite unkind, abusive and selfish not sure what faith that is he follows! Yep, your weekend sounds about right, life with a narc is exhausting. I do everything too, like EVERYTHING and I simply can't get it all done. All weekend I rushed around to one practice and 5 games for one kid (he is coach so I get her ready, I drive, I get everything done and he simply gets in the car, late, then tells me to drive faster, he's the coach it looks bad if he's late), went grocery shopping, clothes shopping for kids' NHS induction, to the mall to order a tux for prom, fed everyone every meal, did all the dishes the laundry cleaned the garage...and he? Went to the gym, played softball and the rest of the time, on his b*tt on the computer in his world he can control. So much computer. Meanwhile I feel at work like I don't have time for this I need to get home I have more to do, and can't think straight, ever. Is your son capable of getting better? That sounds stressful I am sorry.

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Apr 23

@jessiesnake just saw the update

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