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Confronted the cheating narc..... So I confronted cheating

Confronted the cheating narc.....
So I confronted cheating narc! I know I have been MIA but I had to get tot he bottom of this... Long story short I confronted him and reached out to her. She denied everything, he said he had known her only for a week... the latest phone call that he did not get to delete from his phone is from August. But he turned around and blamed me for it. Blamed me for everything. For each one of his lies and his cheating. She defends the narc and today I got the last one... he called me crazy. He said "you have mental problems" I was like are you kidding me? I just can't believe someone can be this evil and dangerous. To go to tell the person who figured him out that they are not well in order to distort reality and keep getting away with things. He DEMANDS to be forgiven and DEMANDS I do not talk about that anymore. Since I did not give in to his demands now I have mental problems. I have made my bags and will try to get the most important items out today because if I stay here, I do not know what he can even be capable of.

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[3130]
Oct 31

@ikp1986 - ha ha we should go into manufacture!!

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[1225]
Oct 31

@Limp Thanks for the support. How is it that we get so mentally and emotionally exhausted when having to deal with them and narcs seem to thrive on this behavior? I want to be stronger than this but have been fighting this for more than half my life. I can't wait to move on.

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[3130]
Oct 31

@peacewanted - Hi :-) yes, it is uniquely evil and drains you like nothing else probably ever could. Basically tho that is who and what they are, they are the sum total of their abnormal hateful behaviour. They actually enjoy it. To understand it you have to examine what you know - not each individual act against you - but the whole thing and you will see they basically care about one thing only, themselves. They have their own rules and they are nothing to do with being nice or playing fair. If they seem upset its either fake so they get attention from you or its because you or someone else has said or done something to exhibit free will outside of their total domination which will be taken as an insult. Make any move against one of them and one really needs to be prepared for the most foul, low rotten tactics and for them to look like an angel to everyone else. I am coming to believe that mine has conned me throughout our entire relationship and is actively both working against me and looking to replace me in both the short and long term. By short term I mean having flirting relationships everywhere he goes. It really could easily unravel your mind and its why they are keen to call you unbalanced. All we want is normality with a partner that loves, honours and respects us and its killing to know its the one thing you wont have with them. Keep strong. Dont swim upstream, dont try to reason with the Narc or expect any genuine understanding, accept in your mind they are no good and play the game until you can leave them far behind. Why not make yourself a nice hot drink, sit down, relax and think how lovely life will be without the abuse after you leave, however long it takes to go.

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