After several attempts to get away I often cave because he m
After several attempts to get away I often cave because he makes my life such hell when I do not follow his rules and fight for myself. I thought this time would be different. However now he has come to my home and taken a chest full of all my kids(17&19) pictures and certificates of achievement. This chest means the world to me. It contains every single picture of my children since their ultrasound. The police say it's martial property even though they are not his kids so they would only let me take a picture of everything he took through his truck window. Well this is where I must cave yet again. I must apologize as he told me to do and take him back. My apologies will come with tears of disgust and hatred. I must bow down to this evil person who tortures me. I am worst off than being in a prison. Next time I may be there instead.
@NarcSupply100 Welcome to SG!... I'm sorry, but you were not the one who initially questioned the article -- @shattered_glass had written a lengthy comment to me, last night. It seems to have since been deleted -- that was what I had addressed in the PM. I only saw your comment before I had posted the above comment, a little earlier. I believe that was reaching out to you.....
@pickone thank you for taking the time to speak to me in pm. I have nothing but the upmost respect for you as the moderator of this group and as a person as well as this group as a whole. Although I expressed my negativity towards Melanie's blog in general, I was relating to my own personal situation and feelings and what I was getting out of it for me. Although I did not express that in my remarks and stated what I thought about that link and blog, I want to clarify now that I was expressing that as looking at it from my own perspective regarding my own situation. I certainly by no means meant it as it not being a possible source of healing and personal growth for others. Although we are all here healing from a narcmare, we all dealt with different people, we are different people, we will heal as different people. I appreciate all support given and I know there are so many here that needs various support at well. I hope that others can find some healing or knowledge from the advice and information they may find helpful from Melanie's site.
@shattered_glass You're very welcome, and thank you for your kind words and understanding. I totally agree that even though we may share similar experiences, since the narc behavior patterns are similar -- we are different people, as are the narcs, and the situations. We're at various stages of healing, many are just beginning -- and our perspectives are also different. We try to provide a variety of information and resources, so that people may find something that's helpful to them. We understand that what is helpful for one person, may not be for another. I hope each person can get from the group what works for them -- and especially support.....