Deflated and update for anyone interested in this drama, I g


Deflated and update for anyone interested in this drama, I got a call from my ex yesterday while at work and he proceeded to tell me that he wouldn't visit his ex-wife you know the one that turned him into a cuck and slept around with multiple people while they were married, this is the same woman I had to be worried about while we were together because if she's willing to sleep around on him she's willing to sleep around with her ex and he numerously told me that he could sleep with her whenever you feel like it so now that we broke up right to her he went. I don't care about that it just comes around full circle at the end of my story. Anyways so he calls him for me that she and him had discussion that he went over to her house and she told him that she was positive for HPV. And then proceeds to tell me that I should go and get checked so that I can prove that he never slept with her while we were together, I was baffled at the entire conversation first of all why do you have to prove that now we're not together? I didn't understand where he was going with this? So I asked where are you going with this reply was that his credibility is important to him and he needs to prove to me that he didn't cheat on me so if the test comes back negative that means that he didn't sleep with her. That doesn't prove s*** condoms work fantastically, so that doesn't prove anything to me for one for two you want me to go get tested so you can feel better about our relationship ending? For your ego, your peace of mind? I could care less. I simply said if that's all you have to say then you have a nice day and I hung up. And he started to talk and I don't care but then he texted me there's something he needs to tell me it's important he needs to say it. Needless to say I have yet to call him back or text him because I'm not wasting anymore of my time on somebody who doesn't give a s*** about me. How long is this going to continue though like anybody else have an idea of how long you have to endure somebody like this well after the relationship is over because I remember specifically asking him not to contact me and hear he is contacting me despite it might be something I needed to know which is funny because why would I need to know if you didn't sleep with her? right? that's where I'm laughing like what a f****** joke. Why inform me of something if it doesn't apply to me if you never slept with her ?and why should I be getting tested? are you so cheap that you would prefer me to go get tested instead so that you can find out if you have it or not? smh.

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SoloDad's picture
Mar 18

ughh... sounds like alot of drama you dont need.


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