Its been about 3 months since i had my miscarriage. I dont k

Its been about 3 months since i had my miscarriage. I dont know how to handle it still. i dont have many people to talk to about it since i got out of my IOP and even when I was there i didnt talk.. Some other girl in my group had her first child taken away for a bit and then we actually got pregnant around the same time.. she was going to get her first child back and then she was terrified to have this new child. she literally asked me saying she was half joking if i wanted this new kid. right after i had my miscarriage... theres just so much on my mind, im dying for a little baby.. i dont know what to do right now..

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Mar 20

Hey. I am sorry for your loss. But there are many solutions to your problem. You can go for IVF or surrogacy. I would recommend you surrogacy. I am also a mother of a daughter who was given birth by a surrogate. I am happy that I have my biological baby. After my miscarriages I was not able to conceive. I chose surrogacy for me. My husband had no issue with my decision. After all the formalities which I completed for an appointment, I went to a clinic and they provided a healthy surrogate. I am happy I chose the best place for me. Now I have no worries in my life, my family is completed. IVF is a bit risky. Its success rate is lower than surrogacy. Surrogacy is the most successful procedure which is opted by people nowadays.

Mar 20

Hi there. I am so sotry to hear that. Dealing with a MC is never easy. it's a woman's worst nightmare. I know because I have been in your shoes. It was the hardest phase of my life. And the worst part is that you have to see people having babies and can't help but just wish you were as lucky as them. I had two MCs. And after the second one, I was devastated. I felt like there was no reason for me to live. But then due to my husband's support I put myself together and we got a baby through surrogacy. It was easily the best decision of my life. I am so happy now. You should also give it a try. Good luck sweetheart. x

Mar 20

Hey there. How are you doing? I hope its all great. I am really sorry that you have to go through this. I would suggest don't lose hope. Accident happens but they don't usually repeat themselves. I wish you good luck. I hope everything works out.


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