I'm so heartbroken and sad . Had nobody else to turn to beca

I'm so heartbroken and sad . Had nobody else to turn to because nobody understands . Over the past 7 years I have had 4 miscarriages. Two of them have happened in a row in the past 4 months. I can't help but think there is something wrong with me, and that there are things I could have done to change the outcome. All I've ever wanted was to be a mother and it seems that all I'm able to ever do is get pregnant but unable to stay pregnant. I've giving up on hope. I feel like my dream of being a mother is getting smaller and smaller with each angel baby I lose. Please HELP. I need some advice, someone to talk to, just someone to understand what I'm gong through. :(

View 2 More Comments
Mar 14

Oh dear, I am so sorry to hear about you. I don't know how you must have gone through all this. It's definitely not easy. Life is very tough for you, I understand. But you have to stay strong. Believe in yourself. Never lose hope. Everything will be fine if you remain hopeful. We all are here to support you and guide you. If you are unable to stay pregnant, then I think you should go for surrogacy. It is a very good option to have a baby. Good luck!

Mar 14

I am so sorry to hear about your losses. I can totally relate to you. I've been there. I've had 2 MCs. And honestly, it was the hardest time of my life. I didn't feel like wanting to live. I blamed myself for everything just like you. But you know what? That's wrong. Because it isn't in our hands. It's something that is not in our control. If we would have been able to control it then there wouldn't be any infertile parents ever. But that's not the case. So just stay patient and go for an alternative just like I did. I went for surrogacy and the results were great. I have a baby boy who's 5 years old now. I am very proud of my journey and I think you should be too. You're a brave woman. Good Luck.

Mar 14

Hi Adawn, really feeling very sad for you. Yes, nobody can understand what is going through with you. Only the person who is suffering can understand. Four consecutive miscarriages are really devastating. But you have to stay strong dear. Have you doctor told you that what is the main reason for the miscarriages? If they are genetic. Then there is no solution for that except hoping for best. But if they are due to some other reason. Then you must take medication. There is a solution to every problem here. You are conceiving again and again. That means you are fertile at least. Just look at me. I am facing double infertility. Totally unable to conceive a child. So, going to Ukraine next month for my surrogacy. So, don't you worry? If your body is unable to conceive naturally then you can go for any procedure.


Login or Register

You are visiting Support Groups as an anonymous user.

Please consider joining our community and gain access to additional features by

registering or logging into your account