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I'm 29 years old. I had a miscarriage at 5 weeks last year i

I'm 29 years old. I had a miscarriage at 5 weeks last year in June. That one was hard but I was able to get through it because I figured there was probably a chromosomal issue. I lost a second pregnancy this past week. I was almost 18 weeks. My water ruptured. I had been leaking for a week. I had to induce for fear of infection and gave birth to my baby girl. Me and the father were no longer together but we still talked for the sake of coparenting. But he has not been there for support since I lost the pregnancy. I don't think he really wanted her. He made the whole pregnancy stressful. This has been extremely hard for me. I can't help but feel guilty. Like it was somehow my fault. I had to have a d&c due to retained placenta and am now dealing with huge fibroids and endometreitis. I was just released from the hospital today because of the infection. I don't know how to take my mind off everything and I'm terrified I may never get another chance to be a mother. I live alone. I don't want to keep bothering people with my depression because no one knows exactly how I feel and think i will start to get on everyone's nerves. I have times where I'm kind of ok and then I will just lose it. This is so hard.

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Jun 29

I am so sorry to hear that it is so saddening. No-one should face things like this. But i can understand you. I have a younger sister and she went through a miscarriage recently. It was such a horror for her. As she is just 20 and got recently married. Being so young they all want a kid. But having a miscarriage just brought everything down. I hope you stay strong. And do not face things like this again. Just have faith. TTC, after consulting your doctor. There always another time. I will pray for you. Best wishes.

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Jul 1

Hey sweetheart! How are you doing no? I am sure that you have started to recover slowly and gradually as the time is passing by. I know how it feels like to have a miscarriage. It is both physically and emotionally exhausting and saddening dear. But you should know that this is not the last thing in the world. You have more chances and there is a possibility for you to get pregnant again.
Just keep trying and stay positive. You are a brave girl and there is nothing that has no alternative solution in this era.
Please stay calm and composed. I am so trying for the past 7 years and I want you to keep trying too.
I am going to refer you to a clinic which will help you with all your problems.
You will get lucky soon. I assure you!
Tae care and Good luck!

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Jul 2

Hey! So sorry to hear about your loss. I can understand the pain you must be going through right now. It is not easy for a person to suffer from such losses. You build up so many expectations and losing an unborn child can be devastating. However, you got to be strong in such times. The technology has developed so much in this era, you will find various solutions. I hope I see you blessed with a bay soon. Good luck and take care.

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