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I'm 29 years old. I had a miscarriage at 5 weeks last year i

I'm 29 years old. I had a miscarriage at 5 weeks last year in June. That one was hard but I was able to get through it because I figured there was probably a chromosomal issue. I lost a second pregnancy this past week. I was almost 18 weeks. My water ruptured. I had been leaking for a week. I had to induce for fear of infection and gave birth to my baby girl. Me and the father were no longer together but we still talked for the sake of coparenting. But he has not been there for support since I lost the pregnancy. I don't think he really wanted her. He made the whole pregnancy stressful. This has been extremely hard for me. I can't help but feel guilty. Like it was somehow my fault. I had to have a d&c due to retained placenta and am now dealing with huge fibroids and endometreitis. I was just released from the hospital today because of the infection. I don't know how to take my mind off everything and I'm terrified I may never get another chance to be a mother. I live alone. I don't want to keep bothering people with my depression because no one knows exactly how I feel and think i will start to get on everyone's nerves. I have times where I'm kind of ok and then I will just lose it. This is so hard.

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May 14

I'm so sorry to hear about your losses and struggles, girl. My heart ached as I read your posts, and I wish I could give you a hug. Not everyone can understand the grief and pain that accompany such a loss. Please don't be hard on yourself. It wasn't your fault. I said a prayer for you, and I hope that God will surround you with His comfort and heal you whenever you hurt. I'd suggest that you talk to a grief counselor. You might also want to check out the book, I'll Hold You in Heaven, by Jack Hayford. You can always come here to share and I'm here to support you. I know it's not easy, but stay strong. Love & hugs to you!

Jun 9

I also had 3 losses. This kind of losses are very hard to be faced. I tried very hard to be pregnant but there was no luck with it. I tried again and again. and finally i was pregnant for the first time. I was very happy than all happiness went away with a miscarriage. Than again i was pregnant for 2 more times. But again both pregnancies resulted in miscarriages. My first marriage ended badly and i was totally heart broken. Than i met another man and he was very kind and good. I am going to marry him soon. Now i am 43 years old. I told him every complication regarding my infertility. He said he is happy with me. I have asked him that we will go for surrogacy to have a baby. He has agreed for it. I am so happy. I am going to start a new life soon.
Need wishes.

Jul 2

Hey! So sorry to hear about your loss. I can understand the pain you must be going through right now. It is not easy for a person to suffer from such losses. You build up so many expectations and losing an unborn child can be devastating. However, you got to be strong in such times. The technology has developed so much in this era, you will find various solutions. I hope I see you blessed with a bay soon. Good luck and take care.


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