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I feel weird seeking comfort from strangers, but I’m at a

I feel weird seeking comfort from strangers, but I’m at a point, I don’t know what else to do. I’m 30 years old, and on Labor Day I found out I was expecting my first baby. My boyfriend and I were shocked, but excited. I found out really early (probably 4 weeks), and lost the baby at 9 weeks. I’m lost, and broken, and feel a constant pain. It’s been a month (as of yesterday) that the miscarriage happened, and I feel like I’m just stuck. I can’t get past it. I think about the memories I dont get to create, the baby snuggles I don’t get to have, everything that hurts the worst- that’s where my mind always goes to. I just need...I don’t really know- maybe encouragement, comfort, others experiences? Will this pain surpass?

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Nov 9

I am so sorry for your loss. I know how heartbreaking and devastating that is. I have been there myself. You are going through the grief process. You had a huge loss. It's normal to feel the way that you do. Realizing all that I was going to miss out on with the little one that I lost was definitely the hardest about it. We start planning and dreaming as soon as we find out we are pregnant and then all those dreams and plans are shattered! Allow yourself to grieve. It's ok to be sad, angry, bitter etc. The grieving process is different for all of us as is the time. It took me an entire year to grieve. It's been several years since my loss, but it does still effect me to this day, especially around the time I lost her. I'm not sure that you ever totally get over it, but the pain does ease in time. I don't know your spiritual beliefs, but I will be praying for peace, comfort, and healing for you!

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Nov 17

Thank you for your sweet words. I could use all the prayers!

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Nov 17

@Scat thank you so much

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