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Hi everyone. I am not sure if this is due to hormones but I

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Hi everyone. I am not sure if this is due to hormones but I found out my husband went to a back room with a stripper 10 years ago. I am trying to put it in the past but can't get images out of my head. Any suggestions? We love each other very much and he is very sorry in his lapse if judgment. But I need to move on. Any advice and please don't say drop it it was 10 years ago. I've heard that enough

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Dec 9

@Nancy2161 it's up to you, but it sounds like its the friend you don't trust and you do trust your husband. Maybe give him the benefit of the doubt (your husband) that he will do the right thing.

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Dec 9

@Goodday That is absolutely true with me not trusting his friend. He is a narcissistic guy that thinks he can do anything and doesn't care about anyone else feelings. My husband did say that he doesn't want to see him for a while because he is that angry with him. The guy has made out with 3 women! One was at his highschool reunion and another time my husband caught him with a woman at a bar while his wife is at home with a really sick baby. I hear these stories and what I am going through is nothing! My husband made a mistake and is paying the price for that mistake with me being upset but this is just WRONG! She only knows of the first one because she saw the message about it on his facebook messages he left open. He bought her a bigger diamond and she was fine.

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Dec 9

@Nancy2161 oh my I feel for her to have a man like that no one deserve that at all. Shame on him.... Glad to hear your husband is staying away from him for awhile and for him to tell you what his friend has done says a lot and I think you two will fine.

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