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Reflecting on my life and how I got to this point. ? My lon

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Reflecting on my life and how I got to this point. ? My loneliness has been so profound because I was always alone when I didn't want to be. I wanted to get married and have kids when I was 16 yrs. of age. Then when I ended up ending the relationship with this person i was so heartbroken I put it out there in the Universe that I was never getting married or having kids. So far I still haven't. It was all fear based. Not because I didn't want it but because I thought it would be too painful to deal with if I ever lost them the way I lost the boyfriend i!over and thought I would be with forever. All I did was create a different type of pain. I've had long live in relationships since but never willing to commit to marriage and kids.
It's just so interesting how everything effects everything else. The domino effect one choice has.
Now I'm trying to change all that. Create a whole new life so I don't have to be alone anymore because it's not what I want. Every now and then we all need me time but I want a partner In crime. The next person that I feel good about ..I want to marry.
So I think we should all be able to make that choice if we want. Go out more. Socialize more.
Create a whole new life at any point that we want. As long as there's still breath in our body.
That is how I feel. I'm not giving up.

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Aww mate, i feel for you. I have like my own company over the years as I didnlt want to come across as a needy or desperate guy but by being anti social we just perpetuate the problems

you can see by story in below link

(https://www.supportgroups.com/loneliness/i-dont-even-know-what-i-want-out-of-posting-this-apart-fro)

but I try to spend as little time as possible in my house, you might ask why? It is simple, no one is going to see or talk to me if I hide away, the problem at best will remain, at worst will become bigger. I try to just sit in cofee shops o go to the gym or just wonder the streets, That way I might come acros someone one day and things might change, in the mean time if nothing else, it atleast passes and kills time and takes my mind off things.

I am a muslim, but never been really been too religious to be honest but I have found praying has helped me, it may not have reduced my loneliness but by thinking about my loneliness I used to get really anxious all the times, but praying has got rid of my anxiety. Perhaps you could try meditation or something similar if religion is not your thing.

In the mean time, use this site to express your emotions, no one is going to judge you here mate promise, we are all in the same boat here and need to spread a bit of love and friendships between ourselves, so be yourself, however hard you are finding it we will try our best to cheer you up mate.

In the meantime I will say a little prayer for you tonight, no one deserves to be lonely, its a cruel existence that I would not wish upon anyone. take cure buddy and hope to hear from you soon :)

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Haunted2's picture
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Oct 9

@LollyNews
Fur babies. : 0
Unconditional
L . O. V. E.

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Haunted2's picture
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Oct 9

@LollyNews
Fantastic... 6 months is usually
when their done with school...
Bringing you much needed comfort I'm sure...

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