I feel like I'm finally in the right place for a relationshi

I feel like I'm finally in the right place for a relationship! I don't know where to meet guys though. I am getting overwhelmed and discouraged. I don't want to go to a bar, and have few friends to go places with. I've tried the library, dance classes ai yai yai I just live in such a small town

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solitude1O1's picture
[3895]
May 19

Try meetup.com or anything where you can go have some fun. Definitely dont meet somebody in a bar. Bars are like meat markets for the most part and the most youre gonna do there is meet somebody who wants a fling. Im not saying you cant meet somebody decent there, just saying the odds are more against it. What you said about friends too, maybe focus on that first and when you do meet somebody itll happen more naturally. Its definitely easier to meet people if you have friends to help with it. You can also try some dating websites too but thats a mixed bag too i think. Id say if you do go the dating site route use the pay ones because the people on those you at least know are somewhat invested because theyre actually paying for it. So it weeds out some of the trolls. I know its hard and lonely being single sometimes but dont get discouraged, go out and try to have fun with it and enjoy life. Im sure youll meet somebody soon enough. Main thing is just keep going and focus on having fun like i said and put yourself out there. When youre having fun people notice and are attracted to that friends and romantic interests too. Also if you go the friend route with somebody first you get a chance to get to know them and know if theyd be right for a relationship without it being a blind bet so to speak.

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rushu's picture
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May 19

we can b frnds, i was here to post about my lonliness & saw yur post so i thought im here at the right time...i dont k ow if we can meet or not but atleast we can b friends...wat do u say ?!

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for sure

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