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I broke up with my boyfriend of two and a half years about t

I broke up with my boyfriend of two and a half years about three months ago. We were long distance about a year and a half, but saw each other most weekends after having lived together previously. I broke up with him because I thought I had fallen out of love with him. I started to not want to take the long bus ride to see him and became interested in other men (never cheated though). I agonized over whether to break up or not because he is the sweetest guy in the world. But now, three months later, I find myself not attracted to anyone. Most days I’m fine by myself, but sometimes I have days (like today) where I miss him so much. We still talk occasionally and are on good terms with one another. I guess my question is, is it normal to feel like this several months after a breakup? I’m unsure if I want to get back together with him because I would be afraid of feeling the same way that caused me to break up with him in the first place. It also isnt feasibly possible because I’m moving away soon which would make the distance significantly worse. I’m always anxious about the future and feel sad that I may never see him again. I’m also worried about not being able to find a guy who loves me and treats me as well as he did. So I don’t know if I made a mistake or did the right thing

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Apr 15

Hello, These are all normal feelings. Sounds as though you know the best is moving on since there will be an even greater distance between you both. Trust your first instincts.


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