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hi im not even sure where to start. my mom is in hospital dy

hi im not even sure where to start. my mom is in hospital dying and i have no other family. its me alone i have no children, i had 6 miscarriages and the man i was with his parents hated me because i wasnt rich like them. so his mother was dying and told him all she wanted before she died was for him to get rid of me. so after 10 years of being together he kicked me out. then to find out i have lupus and have since gained 60 pounds from steroids now i feel so fat and ugly never been heavy before. people laugh at me when they see me now i was always thin i watch them talk about me and with my mom dying i cant handle it im alone in this world, no family or friends. my dog is 13 1/2 and is ready to cross the rainbow bridge, i dont know how im going to make it

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May 14, 2019

Oh I'm so sorry, I was in the same place 11 years ago. Holding vigil on my own. I don't know what to say but, do take any assistance offered. Even if it's just a coworker or someone you're not really close to. Every little thing helps. I regret trying to do everything on my own even though I didn't have close family or friends. Ask for help when you need it. I also went to grief counseling and it helped surprisingly. You have the right to feel overwhelmed, stressed even resentful. Allow yourself to feel all those things but don't get stuck there.

May 15, 2019

I'm so sorry for all you are going through. That's a lot on one person's plate. Does the hospital that your mom is in have chaplain services? If so, they can provide you with information about grief counseling and support groups. I went through something similar with my dad and the chaplain's were very comforting and supportive. A support group is a great place to meet others who are going through the same thing or have been through it. I would encourage you seek some type of grief counseling as you are going through a lot...not just with your mom but everything else on top of that. You don't have to suffer alone. I know you are shy so I'm praying for courage and strength to get some help for yourself. You are stronger than you realize.

May 17, 2019

I am so sorry to hear about your mom. This is such a hard place to be in. I agree with others about seeking the support of grief group. When my dad was in hospice we got connected with https://www.griefshare.org and they were a tremendous help. They are nationwide so maybe you can check them out. Just having others around you who are in the same hard place relieves alot of the burden and loneliness.


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