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Hey everyone, this is the first time I'm posting to this gro

Alainafirefly's picture

Hey everyone, this is the first time I'm posting to this group. I just turned 37 and I've never been married. I was engaged a few years back, but it didn't work out. All of the people around me are married with kids and I feel like I've been left there is something wrong with me that i haven't been able to find a person that I click with. It was so easy to be hopeful when I was in my twenties and early 30s, but I'm getting so hopeless now. Every bad date just feels like more confirmation that I will live the rest of my life like this...never getting to share happy moments with others. I'm sorry if this offends anyone older than me or sounds ungrateful. I could really use some encouragemen tonight. Sometimes the loneliness is just unbearable.

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Mar 19, 2018

As we get older connections are harder to form due to scars left by previous relationships. We get pickier and the red flags fly high when noticed we no longer look for just attraction we look for a spark that we hope will only grow to only be extinguished by past transgressions we have had done to us. I wear my scars proudly for I have learned from them and can recall every scar and from whence it came. We are all soldiers in this battle we call love only wishing that we could have avoided many battles and found the peace of love.

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Mar 19, 2018

Just sent you a message about all this

Mar 20, 2018

@bawbee -I agree! It is so hard to read this thread. You are all coming from the heart and for that there will be someone for you. What would a kind and gentle person want, someone who is the same!?!


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