My husband and I have communication issues. Every time we do
My husband and I have communication issues. Every time we don't see eye to eye, he always brings up divorce. I could go in to details but I'm just honest to God tired of being the only one who sees marriage as a sacred union. I wish getting out was as simple as getting in. Then there are times I wish he would just be mature and work through our miscommunication.
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Baldwin
Baldwin
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50+ years old, Divorced, mom of a 20+ yr. old, live alone, in a relationship, going through menopaus…
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Mar 18My ex husband threatened to leave four times before he left for good after over 20 years. It would be good to consult with a divorce attorney if you have been married for a long time to see what is at stake.
Livingdaytoday_18
Livingdaytoday_18
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Mar 19We have been together for 8 years and married for just 4. I really don't want this to be a situation where he leaves after 20+ years. I plan on consulting with a lawyer the first week of May. I can't keep doing this back and forth mess. I just want something real.
littlestarsmum
littlestarsmum
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Mar 19I'm so sorry to hear what you're experiencing, girl. Wish I could give you a hug. I feel most of the problems in a marriage can be solved if we can communicate well with each other, and I know how difficult and confusing it must for you. Have you ever considered talking to a counselor/therapist? A good counselor might be able to give you solid guidance. Do you think your husband might consider going with you? I just said a prayer for you and your husband, and I hope that God will provide the wisdom, strength and help you need at this time. Your situation may seem impossible right now, but I do believe there is hope. Sending hugs & prayers your way!