Happy 2020!!!
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lately i've been single since a woman i was with of about 5

lately i've been single since a woman i was with of about 5 years sort of secretly then we were engaged to be married. We had our ups and downs but due to my lying to her mainly because of her intuition that i've never dealt with before she only wants to be a friend. She has confused me at times and i just don't know what to do. I will continue to help her as a friend and be there for her. I am on the verge of giving up but at the same time i'm wanting to gain back what i've lost by changing my life around. I am working on doing what is right in life instead of doing all the wrong things. I used to be a good Christian but now i've gone totally to the secular part of this world. I have decided to work things out on my life and get back into doing what is right and that means Renewing my life with God. Cleaning up my act and doing whats right for my son and even visiting my Brothers in Prison. No matter what has been done wrong in my life and theirs a family is a family and friends in my opinion are family as long as we stick together.

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Aug 15

@Griz75 I know i'm not perfect but i do need to focus on those goals as well as stop my habits on lying to my friends. I hope I can do so and maybe just even if its possible marry this woman completely. I really want that with all my heart but i want to do it in a Godly manner and not for lust of the Flesh.

Sep 9

@Griz75 - in due time things happen keep your focus on God, Family and everything else from there and as always God will provide a way. He has seen me through this far. This woman is older and getting knee replacements, having other health issues but i'm still there for her. I wish i could tell her that i want to marry her even if its for a short period of her life. The intimate times we have had together are wonderful but i am starting to feel like we should be married to do that instead of just Friends With Benefits. I don't want to deny her but I also don't want to loose her if i do. I'll ask God's forgiveness for now but I hope maybe down the line maybe she can let me have what i've always wanted. A real woman marrying me and to stick by her side no matter what.

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Sep 9

@mrjcool39 have you talked to her about the marriage? in stead of friends with benefits?


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