I have major jealousy issues. I have no idea where they have

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I have major jealousy issues. I have no idea where they have come from as I’ve never been like this with previous boyfriends. But the relationship I have just come out of I was really bad. He was always messaging other women that were just friends but I always over thought things & asked myself if he’d rather be with them other than me. I always thought they were prettier than me, better than me & didn’t see why he would want me anymore when talking to these girls. We have no split up because he couldn’t take been accused all the time (he’s was awful to me anyway, so part of it was his fault) but I’m scared I’m going to be like this in my next relationship :( and I really don’t want to be. I want him to be allowed to speak to anyone without me getting jealous or thinking there’s something more in it other than genuinely just been friends. Can anyone help me!

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Feb 17

Lorah, sorry to tell you this but no one can help you but you. There is no concoction that can change your behavior or actions and do not let anyone tell you anything different. You have to began to love yourself and build up your confidence that you are somebody very special. Until you love yourself and build up your confidence and self-esteem you will continue to suspect and treat the next person the same way. Real Talk with Robin-Maria

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Feb 18

@Robinmaria i definitely struggle with low self-esteem. I always have :( but thank you for your advise! I will definitely take this onboard & see what I can do to start loving myself more

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Feb 19

Lorah, I'm glad you can identify and acknowledge your struggle, which is a very vital piece in order to begin the healing process. You see we can not change anything if we do not see that there's something wrong with it. Let the healing begin, although it is not going to be easy it will be well worth it. Real talk with Robin-Maria.

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