My partner doesn't want to help financially at all. On top o

My partner doesn't want to help financially at all. On top of that they still complain how I don't do enough. Even have the nerve to say I should just give them money. And everything is my fault. It's mentally draining. It feels like they want me to lose everything I work for or I fail. Since it always u got more than me .

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Thats a big no no! I am in similar boat still today with my now EX. When we started dating he was and still is terrible with money and would sometimes struggle to take care of bills and crap so I thought I was being nice and start paying for things and take care of him essentially. He would pay me back around those times but a lot of the time I unfortunately made it more of a gift. I felt proud that I am helping someone as well as when he said his pride hurt I just laughed and said I was wearing the pants for now. This lead to my downfall, we got pregnant and we both moved out of our parents house to raise our son. The first place we lived at he paid half of everything but when we needed to move he was switching from a new job so would be missing paychecks so I didn't trouble him with the new rent and whatever halfs... I have been paying bills on my own now for 2 years and he only has a few bills and cannot hardly buy enough groceries. We make the same, granted he works a little less than I, but he was slipping money to his parents and would not stop wasting money on vapes and snacks that are hella expensive at gas stations. DROP THEM! Unless they are gonna really realize their dependency on you/realize they are using you and they know they can it is not worth the heart ache to then look back at all the money more you could of had/saved. It will make you mentally worse to handle their behavior plus not having any help. Save the headache and take care of yourself and find someone who will do their share.

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Nov 23

Yes, in the beginning I had a really good job so I didn't mind picking up his slack. Now that I'm part time, I barely have anything to enjoy myself with. He has got so comfortable that he doesn't even try.. Then his family try to make me look like the bad person. As if they don't know he a lazy spoil brat. I just don't understand why they think it's okay?!!

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