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So, my bf has commitment issues and I am usually very clingy

Plantmom123's picture
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So, my bf has commitment issues and I am usually very clingy. But I have been SO good!! I am not clingy, I give him his space. But today he called me saying we need to talk because he feels trapped because I message him “good morning, hope you have a great day, message me when you are free”.... usually he calls me throughout the day and just talks about what is going on with his day. And I love it! I do not know what this sudden change means and I am trying not to be clingy. He said I did nothing wrong and it was just him..... but what?!!! I am freaking out and cannot sleep! We see each other like once a week and usually talk once a day. Which is the least amount of time or communication I have spent with any bf. It is so different to me. HELP! I am freaking out! I have loved him for 5 years and I am being good, not clingy at all! And there is still a problem :( I cannot message him less..... I want to talk to him and be with him all the time. But I am not and I do not.

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Plantmom123's picture
[1765]
Jan 1

Awww thank you!!! It’s so hard! I love him and it is so hard for me to leave him. When it is good it is good but when he gets into his moods it is so frustrating!

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[1435]
Jan 11

That's not right at all. You deserve better.

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a_survivor's picture
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Jan 11

you don't know what, "you don't know".... but when you find something new of higher quality, THEN you'll know and you'll be upset that your wasted 5 yrs...

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