We seem to be making real progress but I can't shake thinkin

We seem to be making real progress but I can't shake thinking about what I know they did, thinks I read they said, and feelings of intense hurt, sadness, and loneliness though sh stayed. I feel like I amd dying and I don't know why because I ultimately got what I wanted, only now I want more.

Aura82's picture
Aug 24, 2015

I think that is a pretty valid thing to feel. You had no way of knowing back then how you would feel once you got "everything" you wanted. Besides I would argue that you didn't get everything you wanted, because you can't take away the past, and what he did. In the here and now, you are hurting, and that is valid.

Aug 24, 2015

Not be, she. I don't mean to be rude but why does everyone assume the BS is the woman and the WS is the man? I am a BH whose wife sought out a high school boyfriend in the midst of her own midlife crisis and pursued a 15 month plus long affair with the intent to leave me for him who fortunately came to her senses just barely before it was too late and wanted to reconcile. It is ******* happens to guys too.


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