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We had a lovely family. We both love each other. 11 years of

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We had a lovely family. We both loved each other. 11 years of togetherness. For one year we were living in different places, due to jobs. This period my husband got affair with a married woman in his office , I got to know it last week. It was 7 to 8 months affair.. Now he regrets, he accepts, he don't want lose our relationship. Somehow i know he loves me, n i. Love him too, I can't live without him, he wants to do anything to make me happy. But one part of me unable to accept his mistake. Anyone who went through same situation? Is it possible to forget everything n start again?

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Jan 21

I physically caught my husband and best friend together. I was in the next room with our kids! I was in utter shock and disbelief as it was extremely out of character for my husband. We have been together for 17yrs. Through ups and downs but never ever did I think he would do something like this. He says it was his worst mistake and he regrets it and feels terrible. He is not good at showing his emotions so it’s hard for me to see him doing all of his normal activities which looks like he is handling perfectly while I can’t even function some days. We r working it out because we move each other and want our family together. Every day I feel different. It’s so hard for me cuz I actually saw them. That’s the hardest part for me is to stop seeing those images.

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Jan 21

I’m so sorry for your experience. I keep wishing I knew who my stbx is having the affair with. I found out 4 months ago he was having an affair which I suspected hss as d been going on for at least one year. I found evidence that he was and moved out. I’ve only seen him 1x since I learned of the affair but I still don’t know who the OW is. Everyone tells me it shouldn’t matter.

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Jan 21

Of course ppl r gonna say it doesn’t matter. But there not the one who is constantly thinking about it and imagining it. He was wasted and he doesn’t recall how it started so in my mind I keep replaying ways it could have started. My “friend” has a bad track record with guys so I’m pretty positive she came on to him first. It’s so just hard in so many ways

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