This is my first time doing something like this... It's been

This is my first time doing something like this... It's been a year since I have found out about my husband's affair and it has been on of the hardest things to go through. Sometimes I feel like I'm going crazy trying to deal with it. Is it suppose to be this hard..?

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Apr 20, 2017

I don't think we've ever really talked about it. He seems to be trying but idk if it's the forgiving or forgetting I'm having a problem getting through. I have told him we should talk to someone but he is more worried about what people will think of him.

Apr 20, 2017

I don't know how anyone can get through this kind of thing without talking with someone. Maybe some do, but I know H tried several times on his own only to fail. Has he looked into therapy or SAA meetings? There's also so online coaching programs out there.

speedy's picture
Apr 20, 2017

You could talk to someone and get help for yourself without him being there . Maybe he should be more worried about what you think of him than what other people think .


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