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Things are going from bad to worse. I just need some suppor

Things are going from bad to worse. I just need some support and kind words. My story is my husband and I are living apart because of his job and it just made sense....long story but it was working until he found a mistress. Today he tells me he is moving in with her. F&@k I am still hanging in there and it's complicated. First I love him and we have been together for 30 years. The plan was for our company to sell and then him move to the state I'm in, our retirement house. When the company sells we should be set money wise. I will not give up or divorce him because I love him, but I am also not stupid. He still is doing holidays with me and our grown kids. Basically he has it made with two women who love him and want him. I'm going to hang in for a while. I just hope when he moves in she can't keep up the façade of being the perfect woman who doesn't demand anything from him. I'm hoping reality of playing house starts to push them apart and I want to be there when it does. I have a good life actually. I don't work and live in a great house on the water and get to pretty much do as I please and buy what I want or need. Technically I could take a lover but I don't want to right now. It's an unusual situation but I am trying to make the best of it. I know many of you want to tell me to divorce him and not to let him have both of us, PLEASE don't. I just need some support and maybe guidance for the choice I am making at the moment. I try not to judge others because you really don't know unless you are in their shoes. Thanks for letting me rant a bit. I just needed to tell someone and I don't have anyone to talk to.

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Jul 12

@Fiftyyoung thank you. I know things may change and it may not work but right now I am choosing to fight for my marriage

Jul 12

@Kas1966 thanks, I see the point of a lover complicating things, probably not the best idea

Jul 13

He is moving in with the mistress, oh hell no. He can’t have both. Your decision but I wouldn’t stand for that.


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