So my wife yesterday broke it off with him and says she has

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So my wife yesterday broke it off with him and says she has broke off all communication with him. If we have any hope going forward I have to take her at her word. Or if she is not telling the truth my choices become a lot simpler.
I have taken some time off from work and hit the road. I can't think straight when im around her. I just want to fix it to the point of obsession.
Being on the road is giving me time to think and decide some things. I do love her and strangely the past few days since I found out have been the best in a long time.
That could be her guilt though. My big decision is am I really in love with her and want to stay and fix it or am I just in love with them idea of us and what we used to be.
I don't think I will get that worked out on this trip but hopefully I will have a much better perspective on things when I get home

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Apr 8

My lawyer is working on it, but all the stuff is gone. I’m really depressed about this whole situation. She made a complete fool out of me and our 3 kids. They hate her now and that makes me sad. She doesn’t care though. She’s got a new man and that’s all that matters.

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Apr 8

@TofuOrNotTofu
Just so you know she hasn't decided to fix it. She is very lost and is trying to figure out what she wants. Breaking it off was the price of me not cutting her out of my life. She loves me and knows me very well. If she didn't do that I was gone and not coming back.

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Apr 8

@Ahumado
It sucks she did that 2 you. Believe me I am being very careful.

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