So many changes going on in my life right now. I'm excited

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So many changes going on in my life right now. I'm excited really excited which hasn't happened in a long while. I have officially retired, we have sold are primary home so almost done packing. We bought a class A rv and will be heading south in November. I'm glad to be out of this area (ap has family nearby so...) one thing that is bothering me and would like some input. At one of the sites we have reserved the woman I felt was a little flirtatious with my husband. So even though I don't think my husband would ever cheat again (I didn't think he ever would have but he did) I'm thinking about buying a video camera and installing it in our rv. I told him I was leery of this woman and of course he understood and assured me that would never ever happen. However my husband does sometimes drink and he gets cute if you know what I mean. Yes the trust still isnt 100 percent and yes my self esteem is still lacking.

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Kas1966's picture
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Aug 19

@RhiannonMarie85 well a person who ruins trust shouldn't be surprised. Trust is earned after infidelity and I still have triggers from time to time. It's taken me over 4 years to heal through this.

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Aug 19

@RhiannonMarie85 if my husband couldn't understand why I did it after 4 years of being lied to and cheated on then he still hasn't got it. I gave him a out I told him he needed to go be with her because obviously that's what he wanted. What the wayward thinks is enough might not be enough for the betrayed.

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If someone has to keep playing detective it's time to go. I would be saying I can't do this anymore. Sorry

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