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So last year I was pregnant. I can admit we were unhappy. Ar

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So last year I was pregnant. I can admit we were unhappy. Arguing all the time, and had been for a while. I still loved him but we had some issues. Well a girl at his work started paying him attention, begging him to meet him, just as friends , public place , etc. Well he did. Then they went to a semi private place and ended up going all the way. He says he felt terrible, told her it never should have happened , he loved his family and made a mistake. She told him if he was going to be a quitter she would tell. She continued to ask him to meet up and he would make excuses until she told him no you will meet me or I will tell. He finally told her he was done tell me If she wanted to. Well almost 3 months later we had our daughter. She found out on social media and messages me the day I gave birth to tell me. I have so much anger, 6 months later , yes because of what they did, but also because this woman tried to take one of the most special days of my life away from me, all while trying to be nice and telling me how beautiful our daughter was. I cut off contact and never said anything to her I wanted to because I had more important things to take care of. But now I wish I would have , I want to say something to her so badly about the lind of person I think she is. I also wish I could talkto a man about how things are perceived differently in their eyes. Wish I could let it go, just cant figure out how. We are still together and have actually been doing way better than before, but the thoughts kill me .

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Mar 27

@devastatedinptbo thank you so much for this. I have already purchased the book. My husband was also at rock bottom, and I notice looking back now he would go 4 days without showering until i finally said something to him . He is still far from forgiving himself and sometimes i have to be his shoulder in this, but it helps us regain trust and love when we are both vulnerable to our feelings x which is hard for him and is a lot of reason why everything happened the way it did.

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Mar 27

@Kyleah it is hard and I hate to bother people with my problems because some people really have it worse than me. But everyone here has said some great things and I am thankful for all of you.

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Mar 28

Its hard I know. I'm also trying to process my situation too.

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