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So last night in therapy we came to the decision that I'm in

outoftheblue72's picture

So last night in therapy we came to the decision that I'm in the acceptance stage. I've accepted the fact that we are no longer together and I'm ready to start moving on. I don't have anger towards him, I also don't think about him every waking moment. I feel stronger than I have in a very long time. My therapist said that being concerned about his well being is just being human. I spent a long time with this person and I will most likely always have some type of love for him. I feel good today, better than I ever imagined I would. I just wanted to share this with you guys. This group has helped me in so many ways, I'm truly grateful for all of you :)

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devastatedinptbo's picture
Sep 13

@Angie2002 I agree and have greatly admired how Outoftheblue has handled herself with grace and dignity and shown such kindness to her undeserving stbx throughout the whole awful ordeal. She should be very proud of herself!

Ellen4550's picture
Sep 13

@Angie2002 I do believe that you all who have chosen to stay have a hard road..I stayed for almost two years and it was not easy...leaving is a different kind of hard...with a little bit of freedom attached of luck to you!

Technofreak's picture
Sep 15

I could not be happier for you. I wish I could be in this place too for myself. Still struggling day by day while he is out there with the OW having the time of his life. I don't get is with all the issues I have had to hear he is having: a sick elderly mother he moved into his house, his work taking up all his time, endless issues I have had to listen to. Where did he have time to have an affair when he did not have time for us.


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