So I'm thinking my wife is cheating with her boss, who is al

So I'm thinking my wife is cheating with her boss, who is also married. A few times a week she either has to go in early or stay late.

Other things are, when she does get home. We get the kids settled in and eventually off to bed, she then falls asleep on the couch. There's no time for us. She doesn't try to hold my hand anymore, she rarely hugs me, and she doesn't touch me. By that I mean just a hand on my shoulder or arm or leg. Just little kind of flirty touching.

The biggest thing happened at her work x-mas party. There was plenty of drinking and her boss is one of those touchy feely kind of drinkers. So as the night went he was getting like that with her. While I'm there and while his wife is there. His wife is very passive and I guess didn't see what I was or just brushed it off. Now as the night went on his attention turned from my wife to a different female employee. Wife got noticeably upset, she doesn't hide it well, and we left immediately. It was a quiet car ride home. Once we got home I questioned her on why she was upset and made us leave. She denied she was upset of course. So not satisfied with her answers I dug deeper and asked her about her relationship with her boss and what I saw tonight and other concerns I've had about some of their previous interactions. Which were conversations that they've had. She again denied and turned it on me about trusting her and other previous issues married couples have. I have always trusted my wife, until as of late. Are my concerns valid?

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Jun 25, 2020

I just don't know how someone who was cheated on in her first marriage could turn around and do this to someone.

Leahzan's picture
Jun 25, 2020

@JaLee My husband had an affair with a woman whose first husband cheated on her (amazing what you learn on facebook). She purposely sought a married man because it was "less complicated". She is a special kind of POS. And, to make it even better, this POS came to my house. So, I still have feelings of wanting to utterly destroy her.

Kas1966's picture
Jun 25, 2020

@JaLee both my husband's exes supposedly cheated on him yet he had no problem cheating on me. Go figure.

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