So I was lying in bed thinking this morning if the ow and he

[8030]

So I was lying in bed thinking this morning if the ow and her new husband ever decide they that want him to adopt my husband daughter I think my husband should tell her no. Yes this may sound selfish on my part but she is the one who wanted her daughter to have a last name of a family that she clearly new that her daughter would never be a part of. She needs to explain to this little girl why she has a last name of a father who couldn't be a part of her life and she needs to be truthful as why her father couldn't be apart of her life. Does this little girl deserve to be adopted by her current husband yes. But I just feel the ow should suffer the consequences of her selfish behavior in end she only hurt that little girl in the long run. As for adoption if they ever approach us about it my husband already said he would allow the other guy to adopt his daughter and all I can do is support my husband decision.

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Nov 14

I think that this little girl should be loved, period, you don't want your husband to be a part of her life, so if this man is willing to be her dad, then you should be glad.

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[8030]
Nov 14

@CKBlossom first off my husband doesn't want to be part of his daughter life. This decision was made by husband before I even found out about the affair. He told the ow when he was ending the relationship with in August of 2016 that he wanted no part of her or the baby life if he was the father My husband have talked about this numerous times. He doesn't want to be part of his daughter life. I can't force him I have no legal rights to his daughter. I just think the should suffer the consequences of giving that little girl my husband last name when she new that my husband didn't want to be part of the baby life. Why would you do that to your daughter. If they ever approach my husband about adoption my husband already said he would allow the other guy to adopt his daughter since he choose not to be part of his daughter life. So don't say I don't want my husband to be part of his daughter life bc I never told my husband not to be part of her life. Like I said in the beginning he made the decision before I even found out about the affair.

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