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So I guess I was triggered last night. We’ve been having g

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So I guess I was triggered last night. We’ve been having good days. My wife got a text from a friend about doing stuff for his bday(this friend is gay) but this is the group of friends we’re shed hang out with the other guy. No one knew they were a thing. But just seeing that ruined my night. She has this guy blocked so idk if he’s in the group text nor does she and said she wouldn’t go without me but I’m still upset. More upset that she stepped out of our marriage just to realize I was the better man in the long run. I love this woman but I’m still questioning myself

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Kas1966's picture
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Feb 14

@Jc2777 that doesn't scare me. What scares me is am I able to move forward. Because if I'm not then it really doesnt matter what he does.

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Hi Jc2777,
I think you already got good advice from the other posts here especially the counseling. You just need to hang in there and do not doubt yourself because you are not the one who did anything wrong. I just encourage you that many marriages experience something like this and the trust can be rebuilt but you both need to work on it. A strong commitment is really the glue that holds a marriage together.

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Kas1966's picture
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Feb 14

@[email protected]_1 the problem is I think most here thought they had a strong commitment at least I did.

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