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So for those of you following along. Sunday was Dday #2. A

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So for those of you following along. Sunday was Dday #2. After Dday on May 3rd my partner said that he'd cut off all ties with his AP, we've been working on us and things were starting to feel normal again. Until last week when he snapped at me once, and then I noticed that his phone was attached to him again. So Sunday I looked in his phone and found that they started talking again after less than a month apart but now he's just gotten sneakier about it, listing her under different names and then screen-shotting their conversations, saving it on his work computer and deleting everything from his phone. He also directly lied to me several times over the past few weeks when I was triggered and asked him to tell me it's over and that he regretted it. After I confronted him on Sunday he said he wasn't sure that he could stop talking to her. Well, on Sunday after I found out I emailed the OW's husband but to an obscure email that I found online. I hadn't heard from him at all so today I emailed his personal email (my friend found it through a snooping app) telling him that I wanted to make sure he got my message and I'd hate for it to be something he found after some time, I asked him to confirm that he got my email and apologized for giving him bad news and offered to talk more if he wanted to.

He responded just now and all it said was, "I've received your email and I'm sorry for what you're going through, however, it isn't your place to get involved with my relationship with my wife."

I have decided not to respond but for some reason that upset me. About 30 minutes after that, my partner came upstairs looking very upset saying that he was taking a ride to get out of the house. I tried to press him for what's wrong and he just kept saying, "I'm fine". He wouldn't tell me if she wrote to him to end things, he also wouldn't tell me if her H called him. Maybe his acute emotional state is unrelated but that seems unlikely to me. Not know what's happening is KILLING me! I feel like all of this emotional turmoil that directly affects me is happening all around me and I have no way to know what is actually occurring. I don't even know if he knows I told the OW's H or if they left that part out. I'm already a sobbing wreck right now and then this. I don't know what I need. I need some support I guess.

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Aug 6

@AlliRow here with you sending positive vibes. Happy birthday and sorry to hear the turn of events. Its horrible to think people can do the things they do but you are a beautiful soul keep pressing on i do believe if it does not kill us it makes us stronger and with all the support and true love on her you are stronger. Here any way that may be helpful sucks anyone has to have their life turn upside down by a person that pretended to be so caring SMH wish more i could do but feeling ur pain

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Aug 6

@AlliRow here with you sending positive vibes. Happy birthday and sorry to hear the turn of events. Its horrible to think people can do the things they do but you are a beautiful soul keep pressing on i do believe if it does not kill us it makes us stronger and with all the support and true love on her you are stronger. Here any way that may be helpful sucks anyone has to have their life turn upside down by a person that pretended to be so caring SMH wish more i could do but feeling ur pain

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Aug 7

@Kyleah I hope you're safe. The stories about your ex, scary.

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