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So although I am fairly confident that my husband lies about

So although I am fairly confident that my husband lies about everything, I still give him the benefit of the doubt because there are times that I am wrong and he isn’t lying. He used to make me cd’s and several years ago, replaced an iPod for me that I told him that I would return if he did because it wasn't a big deal and I didn't need it. He bought the iPod anyway and had it engraved for me so I couldn’t return it and it was very sweet. Two years ago when all of this happened, I lost the iPod and the last cd he made for me and I accused him of throwing them away. He swore he didn’t but naturally I thought he was lying. Well today I was looking for something in my car and realized that you could pull up the carpet on the floor under the driver’s seat. I looked under there and guess what I found? Yep – the iPod and CD. I played the CD and there are only two songs on it, both by the Avett Brothers – “If it’s the Beaches” and “November Blue”. If you’re not familiar with the songs, just take a look at the lyrics…sigh. This is exactly why I struggle.

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eyesopen2018's picture
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Sep 11

@invisibleone I try not to relate the two but it's hard. The worst was when I had my fourth baby, he only took two days off of work and insisted that it was dumb that he stayed home longer and I knew something was up. That was in 2013 and when I found out who he was talking to in 2018, I see that it was someone he knew for years and she left his company the month after our son was born. That's why he rushed back to work - for her.

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eyesopen2018's picture
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Sep 11

@froggymom Thank you - unfortunately we are all here. My therapist told me yesterday that we are angry and sad because that is what we choose to be and I know he is right.

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Sep 12

Prayer heals wounds.

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