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So – my husband has changed his meds and his behavior and

So – my husband has changed his meds and his behavior and demeanor is much better – almost like I remembered him to be. We went on vacation last week and it was great, but here is the thing – I am ok with him as part of my family, but not as my partner, I dread being alone with him. I don’t want to be intimate at all with him, like I feel absolutely nothing. And it’s not because I am not in “the mood”, I just don’t want to with him. We are two years in just about and this has gotten worse over the last few months. I just don’t want any part of him, but want my family together. I don’t know what to do and I don’t know if this will pass. I don’t even want to kiss him and I pretty much have to pretend with everything. The worst part is that my mind is starting to wander with others and I feel awful for it. I didn't notice people like that before this and now I do. Has anyone had this and it passed? Mine just keeps getting worse.

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eyesopen2018's picture
[6295]
Aug 14

To make the whole thing even more awkward, he stares at me "lovingly" all the time. I'll turn around and he will be across the room just staring at me. I ask him why and its just because "i am so beautiful and he just loves me so much." He also will post things on FB and refer to me as "special" or "how exciting!" when these are not words that he uses. It's strange and embarrassing....it's like he is trying to be overly affectionate or something.

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eyesopen2018's picture
[6295]
Aug 14

@MrBrains well it's annoying and creepy and he needs to stop. lol

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[36900]
Aug 14

@eyesopen2018 In terms of your marriage, do what is best for you? Since your h is the reason for you feeling this way, he has no say in the matter if you want to leave or stay.

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