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On a side note; Over the years, and just this morning, I've

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On a side note; Over the years, and just this morning, I've heard in passing and in person a woman say things like "My kids come first" and "My husband should understand now that we have kids that the kids come first". I wanted to ask the nice women here, Have you said these things? Have you heard these things from your friends? Do the women that feel this way, not know how damaging this belief is to their children?

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MrBrains's picture
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Apr 17

@Km27 Say what you like but, you can only find out what you actually believe (rather than what you think you believe) by watching how you act. You simply don’t know what you believe, before that. You are too complex to understand yourself.

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Apr 17

@MrBrains So, if you don’t know what you believe, how do you know you believe in god? Maybe you’re an atheist too! lol

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Apr 17

My wife has said this to me word for word many times. When I questioned it, she said yeah the kids come first. I said why, me and you and our relationship came first and if it wasn't for us, they wouldn't be here. This is coming from a wife who cheated for 2 years. So, in my opinion and from what I'm experiencing, they say this when they don't love you or aren't "in love" anymore (hate that saying). They don't want to put you first and choose not to. That's why they say that.

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