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My insecurities are at it again. My husband is going just no

My insecurities are at it again. My husband is going just now to 2 customers on the same street , both of them about 5 to 10 minutes from the OW. On Sunday he told me he doesn't even think about her, she is non existent to him and he doesn't want to see her ever,not in this lifetime and not in his next.He said I'm the one who keeps bringing her up. So why am I still worried? Of course I didn't say anything for fear of reminding him of her, but I feel terrible with anxiety.

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May 15

@Floored I try to think of something else but it doesn't always work. Today i kept remembering what he said about her and that helped, and writing it here also helped.

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May 15

@Merphurts I know it sounds good on paper huh! :) I still think about what he did and that is what makes me mad. The ow does not trigger me at all but she does not live in our state either, I can see how that would be hard.

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May 23

Dear Merphurts, I am getting to this a little late, but am hoping that you writing here has helped the situation. Are you two in counseling? It is helpful since it give you healthy way to communicate with each other about the whole situation as well as healthy ways to deal with the feeling, hurt, grieving, that comes with an affair. Praying things are on the mend and that the anxiety has subsided.

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