My husband swears he had sex with someone only 1x. He swears

My husband swears he had sex with someone only 1x. He swears it was the only time and he swears it will never happen again. I see so many of you post that your spouse said the same thing and then it happened again. Is it possible to only cheat once? How do I know it will never happen again? My best friend says it's his responsibility to show me that it won't happen again. But how does he do that? I don't know what it would take for me to believe it won't happen again.

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Apr 22

Hello, sorry you experiencing this in your marriage. Those that reveal this are usually, not all people are the ones willing to make the marriage work. Those that don't tell may carry on and not say anything as they don't want to raise the suspicion about themselves that they do this kind of thing. Everyone deserves th e chance and provided you have something to fight for. Anymore behaviour like this then show here the door I suppose. It's not acceptable. Good luck

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Apr 22

@Katierose87 thank you. My H lied for days about what happened. He came home with hickys and kept lying but eventually told me the truth. He swears he would have eventually bc the guilt was killing him. It's hard to know if he would have told me or not. I feel like he would have bc that's the kind of person he is. But of course I also never thought he would cheat. So who knows. The OW only owns up the kids and hickeys so he could have easily stuck to the story. Guess I have to give him a little credit

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Apr 22

@Luci5678 that should say she only owned up to the kiss and hickeys

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