My cheating husband started reaching out to me this week aft

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My cheating husband started reaching out to me this week after almost 3 months of separation. he emails me every morning with "sweetheart..." nothing more, nothing less. i got exasperated last night and finally replied that i am not his "sweetheart" anymore. He replied back that "for me, you will always be my sweetheart." my final email was "you lose the right to call me that when you chose to leave me for your other woman. i am not an option." he didnt reply anymore and didnt email me this morning. does this mean that he is slowly coming out of the "fog"? did i do the right thing? i really need your feedback, thank you.

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[1475]
Apr 22

@Bee4bdn i suspected he is one...i just thought that he is under influence of the "fog" and that the OW got an emotional hold over him bec she has abandonment issues. She has the tendency to be emotionally unstable. In your opinion how do u think he reacted to the email?

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[1475]
Apr 22

@Bee4bdn their rel is on and off, kinda unconventional. He is compartmentalizing. He does not contact us at the same time. They were "off" when he started emailing me. But after my email my friends said that they are "on" again. Probably to sooth his ego.

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Apr 23

He used your email to bring her back in line. She doesn't want to lose him to you. It's not like she's going to keep him though.

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