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Me again, I was wondering if anyone struggled to connect wit

Me again, I was wondering if anyone struggled to connect with their partners intimately after everything... I just can’t connect atm. Even kissing if it turns a bit more intense I begin to shut down... is it normal?

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Henrietta606's picture
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Nov 3

@OlFaithful For all the things that I've been through, it's amazing that I still have hope and that has kept me from ending my life a long time ago. People are unfortunately products of their environments, and there are always reasons why they do the things they do, intentionally or not. An excuse is an attempt to lessen blame. If someone wrongs another, then they should own up to it. If they don't, it's on them. I'm sorry she duped you. Sometimes that is what hurts the most, is that we trusted someone and let our guard down. That probably won't happen again to you, but the sad truth is, you just never know. People wear masks.

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Nov 3

@Henrietta606 I don't feel duped I feel violated. Being clueless because you trust someone is not a weakness. Of course there are reasons for what anyone does. Even ignorance is a reason. It's never an excuse. I am so glad you didn't end your life. It's yours to live despite what's been dealt to you.

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Henrietta606's picture
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Nov 3

@OlFaithful excuses are like a*holes...everyone has one. Didn't say it was a weakness, in fact, I'd have to say trusting is a virtue. Everyone trusts.... we trust the sun will rise every morning..... is that a weakness? You are the one that said you were a fool for believing her, I only echoed it. I hope that you find peace. I wont ever end my life because it is too precious and nobody can afford to pay that price, only my Creator. The one thing that I advocate with a vengeance is that each and every human on this planet, be honest w/ themselves. Lying to yourself and believing your own lies, only leads to hurt. Hurting yourself and hurting others.

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