Lost I found out 2 months ago that my spouse of 11 years ha

I found out 2 months ago that my spouse of 11 years has been seeing someone for about 5 months.
I moved out and left the relationship and in the process of divorcing.
The struggle is when does the “why” stop repeating in my head? I miss the life I had an no it will never be with her again. She seemed to have moved on and doesn’t care about the damages she caused.
I’m sure this is the group to ask when does it start feeling better.

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Oct 19

Thank you so much. ❤️

Oct 19

Wonderfully spoken. Thanks for shedding a new light on this.


These situations are difficult - but they can be managed. These are the times to seek wise counsel. A Pastor or counselor can help you unravel all the things going on in your marriage. I especially like those who will pray over the situation. They can help you determine if your marriage can be reconciled - hopefully so! They can point you to all kinds of marriage seminars and resources. Some great tools out there! God Bless!


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