I've told my husband that I want a divorce after Xmas. He st

I've told my husband that I want a divorce after Xmas. He still feels we can make it work but I feel that, although sometimes we can get on, that the trust has completely gone and I can't see a way of it coming back. My husband has asked me what he can do to rebuild trust, I have no idea what to suggest but I feel for the sake of the kids I should try and suggest something. Does anyone have anything to suggest or something that worked for them?

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ALynne's picture
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Oct 24

@broken2021 I had that problem too. My husband still refuses to watch them. He gives me access to everything, but he won't take responsibility. He's too busy being emotionally abusive and dismissing.
Sometimes I wish my husband would have just watched one but I realized he wouldn't watch them because that meant him accepting he screwed up and him hearing how wrong he was. He can't take the criticism.

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Oct 24

@ALynne I'm sorry you're going through this. I wish they would either do the work or leave. I'm just so tired

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ALynne's picture
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Oct 24

@broken2021 exactly how I feel. I hate the half Ness my husband gives.
Makes me feel less crazy to see I'm not the only one dealing with these struggles.

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