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It's been awhile for me since I've logged on here. But the t

It's been awhile for me since I've logged on here. But the trust is still not there. I haven't had time to file heal because of constant occurrences. I know that everyone has a breaking point and I feel as though I've just about reached mine. There have been too many lies. Too many secrets and I just don't know if I want to try anymore. I can't change him no matter how badly I may want him to so there is no point in even hoping for it. I feel as though I am beginning to have a disdain for him as well as my marriage. I don't think that he believes that I'll leave. Which is probably why the only thing consistent in this marriage is the art of him keeping secrets.... Needless does he know fed up I am becoming and how close I am to leaving.

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Jun 26

I am so sorry you are facing this, it is so difficult to try and mend things when the behavior does not change. Have you been to counseling? If not marital counseling, maybe individual counseling. Sometimes it is nice just to have someone to open up to, someone who unrelated and uninvolved in the situation. Someone to support you. I'll be praying for you....

Jun 30

I"m so so sorry! yes, it all sucks being lied to and devalued and not respected or feel loved. Sometimes the best thing you can do to keep the marriage and make it better is to leave. If you leave, and say the only way you'll come back is if he's open to counseling and to stop the secrets, it might wake him up. If it doesn't, there's not much hope anyway. If he doesn't want to work on the marriage, how can it be fixed? I did, and we are back together, and doing better. It still is hard to trust and also to speak my mind rather than being quiet and avoiding confrontation. Avoiding doesn't help anyone grow. There's a big difference between a peace keeper and peace maker. Jesus was a peace maker but turned over tables when he needed to, but a peace keeper will bury all down till we explode. Keep things current by resolving them shortly after they happen in an appropriate time when you are calm, but don't just hold it in.

Jun 30

Have you considered counseling? Many prayers...


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