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I wish my husband would be honest with me about the fact he

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I wish my husband would be honest with me about the fact he isn't attracted to me and wants to break up so he can date younger women. Maybe he feels guilty and obligated to take care of me in my aging years and especially with my health issues. But he can still do that and be honest. Why not go live with his mother so he can be free? So long as he pays the mortgage so we don't lose our house to foreclosure and waits to pull his assistance til after I finish my classes and can get my own less expensive place and we can sell our house, then I could live with his rejection after he leaves. What I can't live with is lies, withholding sex for years, covering up flirtations, pretending to be perfect so my kids blame me, etc. Just be honest for once in your effing life and admit you don't wanna be with me. Quit stringing me along so you don't have to live with the guilt. The guilt will continue as long as you lie and continue the charade and pretence.

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freeone1234's picture
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Jun 13

That's a narcissist for you.....lie, lie, lie, and deny, deny, deny until the day they die!

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Henrietta606's picture
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Jun 13

@Scat Meh.... lol.... I've moved so far past it I rarely think about it. But I see others struggling with it while their innocent partner is clueless and it's just not fair to them because it's all a lie. All the holidays and trips and just the every day living is all just air you can't stand on.

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[54065]
Jun 13

@freeone1234, so true. Their favorite all time hobby, lying and denying.

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