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I know people will say I'm wrong and it takes a strong perso

I know people will say I'm wrong and it takes a strong person to stay rather than leave but that's not how I am feeling right now. I feel stupid and weak and a loser for staying. I am too weak to leave.i spent most of the day on Tuesday (with my luggage ready) with my husband trying to convince me not to leave. He told me not to do something stupid over something that's not happening.(meaning he's not seeing or talking to her). He said it's been over for about 2 years and he doesn't give a s$$t about her and he even forgot about her. He said he thought we we starting to move on and things were better between us. Since Tuesday he's been very happy and making plans for the future while I'm sitting here yet again thinking if I should stay or leave.

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Devastatedhusband's picture
2 hours ago

@Tleonar we are in a much better place, thanks for asking. Once I ended it my way we had to deal with the wife of the other man stalking my wife for a week, which I can understand. My wife is back doing the things she used to do years ago. I am very optimistic but still cautious. How are you?

2 hours ago

I am so glad to hear you are doing good! I’m not too bad myself.

devastatedinptbo's picture
2 hours ago

@MrBrains Again, disagree. It’s not the same relationship, yes. It’s a new one. It has to be built from ground up, addressing issues that were present in the old relationship all while dealing with the trauma and hurt of the betrayal. Not easy or comfortable. I really don’t think you understand at all.


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