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I just found out my husband has been unfaithful through our

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I just found out my husband has been unfaithful through our whole relationship. I am devastated. I don’t think I can forgive him. We have an 8 month old baby so I can’t just pick up and leave the way I want to. He has the gall to tell me it was my fault I don’t give him enough attention.

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hap's picture
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Sep 13

Blame shifting is one of the main gaslighting ruses that a cheater will use to justify their actions. Don't let him continue to do this to you.

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Sep 13

Been there. Had a baby too... Wow do I know how you feel. I stayed because of other things that were happening but my advice is to leave even for a bkt and get some clarity. See how he will act. I didn't have that and 1.5 year later we are at square one. I cannot get myself to trust him and he's fed up as well with me always accusing him. Message me if you want to talk because my situation is identical.

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Technofreak's picture
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Sep 15

@Hap. you got that right. He is trying to divert blame onto his wife to not take the blame of his own actions.

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