I have not forgiven him. I thought I did, but I was wrong. I

I have not forgiven him. I thought I did, but I was wrong. I was so angry this weekend. I continued to pack up my house, took all my curtains down, so now it looks really bare and sad. It's not filled with the cozy comfort and joy it once was. I hate it there now. All because he couldn't keep his thing in his pants and chose to betray his so called best friend! So I am packing up the house and splitting our posessions while he's 4 hours away playing withe the OW. How could I have been so blind all these years to who he really was? I am sad, but more mad than I have ever been during this whole ridiculous situation. We have been amicable through most of this, because I chose to be that way, but I don't feel very friendly now. I wish I could blink my eyes and just be in my new place.

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Floored's picture
Nov 14, 2019

I know for me forgiveness is an everyday thing, it is getting easier as time goes on but I still am angry that he betrayed me in the first place. I was so angry at my husband, I kicked him out the day after I found out about his affair and packed up all his crap and got rid of it. He only had the clothes I packed in his suitcases. There was no trace of him in my house, i started changing everything in my house and yards. I guess I jumped the gun a little because we did eventually go to counseling and almost a year later I let him come home. But guess what? I do not feel bad that I got rid of all of his crap! He should not have cheated on me! The ****!

Kas1966's picture
Nov 15, 2019

@Barb4514 it depends on destinations and what packages you get.

Ana08's picture
Nov 15, 2019

@devastatedinptbo it would have to be a really big (I mean HUGE) ship.


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