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I have been with my husband for 25 years, since we were 15 a

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I have been with my husband for 25 years, since we were 15 and 17 years old. I recently had an affair for 2 months, ended it and came clean to him about it. For the first 4 months we decided to work it out, we love each other, we were going to work on ourselves, and it was hot and heavy and better than we've ever been. We talked every day, unpacked all the things that made us both unhappy, and I really thought that we were working on things. About a week ago though, he decided that he cannot fully commit to me. He feels that I set him free, and he's never been with anyone but me. He wants to remain living together, but have most of his time to himself to discover what he wants, be it me or someone else. He doesn't want me unless I work on myself, fix the root issues that made me cheat, and then maybe he'll want a new start. I'm so lost, and I just don't know where to go from here.

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Sep 25

I am so proud of you for going to therapy. I think that is a great start. I am here if you need anything.

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Sep 26

@chaoticjoy3 thanks, yes I k ow I’ve needed it for a long time. I actually had my first session yesterday.

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Sep 26

@APOR2017 thank you. I had my first season yesterday and came out with a new found clarity. It was hard, but is going to be so worth it in the end

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