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I have a question for the guys. I am trying to understand a

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I have a question for the guys. I am trying to understand a guys point of view on cheating. First question is cheating on your spouse with a lover worse or same or equal to paid sex. Which one is worse? Second question how do men view sex in a marriage? Is it true that men have sex to satisfy their physical needs and not from their heart?

I just found out that my husband have been going to special massage place to get some sex. So basically paid sex he didnt start an affair but in his eyes men do these kind of things. AND it was just for the sex nothing more. What is the guy point of view on this? Thanks for any advice or opinion

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Apr 6

@RhiannonMarie85 actually he was telling me he going for massage but mean while he was going to ho houses. Basically paying to have sex. I mean proper vaginal sex. Where according to him he just laid down and the lady did all the work. Knowing him for 4 years yes he is very lazy in the bed. So basically I wasn't giving to him and instead of working things out with me he went out. And telling me guys have needs. Guy needs to work things out with his wife. But anyways now he realize he was wrong there is no justification. He wants to work things out with me. But now I am maintaining a distance. But the problem I forsee is that if i withhold sex he will be forced to go out again. It's really hard to balance these things.

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Apr 6

@Zene I wouldn't want a guy who is lazy in bed.

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Apr 6

@beth65 agreed me too I dont want to but reality is he is.

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