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I found out 3 weeks ago that my husband was seeing a woman (

I found out 3 weeks ago that my husband was seeing a woman (several women) on online dating sights. He had sex with one of them 2 months ago while out of town on business. I have been with him for 19 years and have always believed he was faithful. I was suicidal for 3 days but I am not now. I loved the man he used to be, but I dont think I love him who he is now. He is so different. I feel like my husband died and this man I am looking at who is out of town again right now, I feel like he is not my husband but someone else. He doesnt want me to leave and I feel the only reason for me to stay is because I feel sorry for him. I need to go for myself. I have never thought about myself but about us as a whole family and I just dont know how...

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sillybirdsings's picture
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Aug 22

@Brkn_hrt yes, I agree.

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markhappyguy's picture
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Aug 29

@sillybirdsings I am sorry for your pain and betrayal. It does no good to beat yourself up because of him being an asshat. If anyone is an idiot for a long time, it is him. I hope you are taking steps to take care of yourself; emotionally, financially, legally, physically.

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markhappyguy's picture
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Aug 29

@sillybirdsings Lyme disease is hard. I have a couple of friends who have it. I know one who got cured by an energy system called BodyTalk but it did not work for my other friend.

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