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I find myself thinking about my affair partner constantly. E

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I find myself thinking about my affair partner constantly. Even though i KNOW it wouldn't work....I have two precious children. He has no patience. It would be a disaster! I can't stop stalking his OW IG account. I'm 40, his OW that he said is only his "placeholder" and keeps him busy is 29. It makes me feel so bad. I want to stop doing this! He always said he would drop her for me in a second if I would leave my husband for him. I'm starting counseling tonight. I feel like a horrible person, I want my longing to stop, I feel like my brain chemistry has even changed! This is not me! I want to be a great wife and mother. I almost feel like I've been through a trauma, and my husband is course has been as well. This is the worst feeling ever. I knew an affair was never the answer, and now feeling the effects has me crushed.

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Jan 29

@Ch1978 Thank you so much for posting here. I feel for you, plus reading what you have to write is helping me understand what my husband is going through. It is an addiction that you have to get over, so you should treat it like one. If you can't quit cold turkey, start with small goals.

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Jan 29

@johnyun20 EX-FRIGGIN-ACTLY!!!!

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WinterPixie's picture
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Jan 29

@devastatedinptbo I feel the same way as you. The only reason why I am working things out with my h is because he told me the reason our marriage was rocky and he had the affair was because he was at a low point in his life and didn't feel he deserved to get comforted by me, but needed it. It still hurts like hell, and we are working through it, but I do know he didn't want the marriage to end.

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