I fell so broken. We've been married for 3 years and I went

I fell so broken. We've been married for 3 years and I went through his phone two days ago and my suspicions were confirmed. We have an 8 month old son. All I kept asking him was why he married me and why on earth did he push for a lid if he wasn't finished acting like one. I've been cheated on in the past and after years of therapy I was finally in a better place. He knew how detrimental this would be to us, to my health. I feel so broken.

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LadyBird80's picture
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Oct 21

I found out that my husband had been cheating for months, found out a week before our sons first birthday. This, on top of postpartum?!? I can empathize oh too well and my heart aches for your pain right now.

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Oct 26

@LadyBird80 I'm so sorry this happened to you. Thank you for sharing your experience. It's getting easier with each passing day.

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LadyBird80's picture
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Oct 29

It does and it can, it's been almost 6 years now. Husband and I didn't thoroughly explore each other after D-Day and we recently discovered the secret resentment we had both been building and holding for the past 5 years. We were on the verge of divorce until days ago, then he confessed something that blew my mind, shifted my entire perspective and made me fall in love with him all over again. It really can be stronger in the wake of an affair!

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